You met the love of your life. (Again). But what do you text?
"How are you?".
"Nice to meet you."
Yes, show them that you have a personality of a cardboard box.
You start typing, and suddenly... brain fart! You can't think of anything clever! You're nervous and you don't know what to do!
Relax, here are my top 5 flirty text messages you can send your future partner. Not all of these text messages are funny/instant/out-of-the-box/insert and send--you'll have to chane them for the situation you're in. But even if you don't use any of these, they will generate ideas for you.
No matter what, always keep in mind how the person receving the text feels about you. It should go without saying that you shouldn't send flirty text to someone who clearly is not interested in you.
But enough talk--here is is my top 5 flirting sms messages straight out of my private collection (Yes, I collect texts like other people collect coins).
1. You: stop!
Her: stop what?
You: Stop thinking of me.
2. We should probably be just friends with sexual tension
3. You: Hey, I heard something pretty funny about you.
Her: Really? What did you hear?
You: I'll tell you later when we go out tonight?
4. When are you gonna buy me dinner?
5. You: Hey babe, little disappointed why you haven't tried to make a move on me yet.
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Saturday, May 14, 2011
How To Flirt With A Girl Over Text
So you’ve got her number, you sent the first text… Now you’re wondering how to flirt with a girl over text. So here are a few things to keep her attracted and flirting with you, until you meet up again…
Remember when you used to play “house” with a girl you like in elementary school? You were the husband and girl you had a crush on was the wife. Or perhaps it was doctor and patient or Kind and Queen of the castle (a.k.a. the slide). Although it may have just seemed like a fun game at the time, there was some very powerful psychological principles of attraction going on there. The best part is those principles are far more effective now that you are older. In fact, the affects of successfully role-playing with a woman you are interested in are so astounding you will wonder why you haven’t been doing it all along.
The human brain has trouble distinguishing between imagined events and real memories. This is significant because every time you create an imagined event with a woman using role-playing, she is in essence creating a memory with you. The more memories you have with someone the more comfortable you feel around them. After all, are not all the relationships you have in your life formed from the feelings and bonds created through shared memories together?
When role-playing with a woman the devil is in the details. The more vivid she can imagine herself experiencing the events you describe the more powerful and “real” the memory will become. You want to pick roles where you do things together or where she is the one who is looking up to or chasing you.
Here are a few examples of role-playing ideas:
-Husband and Wife (or ex’s)
-Travel Buddies (talk about all the adventures you are going on together)
-Stalker and Victim (she is the one stalking you)
-Teacher and Student
-Rockstar and Groupie
Another good technique is to tease her playfully every once in a while. Keep it light and silly. This helps lower her defenses by showing you don’t place her up on a pedestal but see her on the same level. A typical guy who was interested in her would never do this. It also makes her have to explain her self to you, confirming in her mind that you are someone she finds valuable. Be very careful with these when you are just starting off, as it is easy to go overboard and say something mean. Never directly insult a girl. They are used to that from all those other guys who get their feelings hurt when she tests them or when she doesn’t talk to them. You are not one of those guys. This is to be fun and playful…it is flirting not hurting.
Examples:
“You’re a closet dork aren’t you?..except without the closet ~”
“Come on now… you have work today huh? Sure it isn’t mandatory community service!? A cute, yet sassy gal who’s a felon… who woulda knew!? Hahah ”
“Awww you’re kinda cute…for a girl ”
If she ever has problems with her car, phone, or any thing she pays monthly for you can say:
“Its cool if you couldn’t afford to pay your bill-I’m not judging you… that much… hahaha j/k “
If she ever suggests a time to meet up (eg 6pm):
“no that’s too early…dont wanna be stuck with ya that long! Let’s do 6:03 haha”
If she ever gives you a compliment:
“That is the nicest thing anyone has ever told me … Since I woke up:-)”
So now you have a few ideas, but if you want the whole kit and caboodle… then you should get my program B4UTXTHER! There’s plenty more on how to flirt with a girl through text.
View the original article here
Remember when you used to play “house” with a girl you like in elementary school? You were the husband and girl you had a crush on was the wife. Or perhaps it was doctor and patient or Kind and Queen of the castle (a.k.a. the slide). Although it may have just seemed like a fun game at the time, there was some very powerful psychological principles of attraction going on there. The best part is those principles are far more effective now that you are older. In fact, the affects of successfully role-playing with a woman you are interested in are so astounding you will wonder why you haven’t been doing it all along.
The human brain has trouble distinguishing between imagined events and real memories. This is significant because every time you create an imagined event with a woman using role-playing, she is in essence creating a memory with you. The more memories you have with someone the more comfortable you feel around them. After all, are not all the relationships you have in your life formed from the feelings and bonds created through shared memories together?
When role-playing with a woman the devil is in the details. The more vivid she can imagine herself experiencing the events you describe the more powerful and “real” the memory will become. You want to pick roles where you do things together or where she is the one who is looking up to or chasing you.
Here are a few examples of role-playing ideas:
-Husband and Wife (or ex’s)
-Travel Buddies (talk about all the adventures you are going on together)
-Stalker and Victim (she is the one stalking you)
-Teacher and Student
-Rockstar and Groupie
Another good technique is to tease her playfully every once in a while. Keep it light and silly. This helps lower her defenses by showing you don’t place her up on a pedestal but see her on the same level. A typical guy who was interested in her would never do this. It also makes her have to explain her self to you, confirming in her mind that you are someone she finds valuable. Be very careful with these when you are just starting off, as it is easy to go overboard and say something mean. Never directly insult a girl. They are used to that from all those other guys who get their feelings hurt when she tests them or when she doesn’t talk to them. You are not one of those guys. This is to be fun and playful…it is flirting not hurting.
Examples:
“You’re a closet dork aren’t you?..except without the closet ~”
“Come on now… you have work today huh? Sure it isn’t mandatory community service!? A cute, yet sassy gal who’s a felon… who woulda knew!? Hahah ”
“Awww you’re kinda cute…for a girl ”
If she ever has problems with her car, phone, or any thing she pays monthly for you can say:
“Its cool if you couldn’t afford to pay your bill-I’m not judging you… that much… hahaha j/k “
If she ever suggests a time to meet up (eg 6pm):
“no that’s too early…dont wanna be stuck with ya that long! Let’s do 6:03 haha”
If she ever gives you a compliment:
“That is the nicest thing anyone has ever told me … Since I woke up:-)”
So now you have a few ideas, but if you want the whole kit and caboodle… then you should get my program B4UTXTHER! There’s plenty more on how to flirt with a girl through text.
View the original article here
Thursday, April 14, 2011
Flirting SMS: A Quick Guide To Texting Her
Flirting SMS and text flirting are the same thing. Text flirting is your golden ticket to quickly making yourself irresistible to her. The 3 main reasons why you should use text messages to flirt are: 1) texting will remind her of you and you want to be on her mind constantly, 2) re-establishing and furthering your relationship with her is pretty easy using text messages and 3) text messages are one of the greatest mediums for teasing and bantering with her (which is awesome for flirting).
Flirting SMS, and particularly, using texts as a flirting medium for guys has grown to be so widespread lately that Shape and Men's Fitness Magazine put out the below results in their 2010 Sex Survey:
* Sending text messages is most couples' number one method of communication with one another.
* Men use texts close to 40% more than they talk on the phone. Girls use texts close to 150% more than they talk on the phone.
* Nearly 70% of respondents have sent "sext" messages in the past
* Close to 70% of respondents say that they have been asked on a date via a text message.
* About 50% of girls and 30% of guys say that they have been dumped via a text message.
So Yes, texting is a powerful method of building attraction. And yes, the following is a collection of flirting SMS texts and PUA text messages that are proven to work for most other guys:
OPENING:
- Surprise!
- Knock knock…
- What's my favorite little troll up to?
- I just made you check your phone for no reason. I really got you under control…
- Hey munchkin, I bet my weekend can spank your weekend.
- What type of trouble are you getting into now?
- I am luring women to my house with candy, would you prefer skittles or m&ms?
- Hey, text me back real quick. A simple Hi will work fine. All my friends don't believe that retards can text. We’ll show ‘em lil buddy!
- Hey princess, I just came back from the aquarium and I saw the most adorable little fishy there and it reminded me of you…
- I hope you have a smile on your face. If you don't, just think of me!
- Aliens are coming soon to abduct all the good looking and sexy ass people on this planet! But don't worry, you’ll be safe. I’m just sending you a text message to tell you bye.
- I really miss you and want to see you, but this stupid worker won’t let me enter the zoo. Is it possible for you to escape?
- Did you know a blue whales tongue weighs nearly the same as an elephant?! That’s ridiculous. Gotta love Animal Planet during the lunch break…
- I just saw your doppleganger!
- U just popped into my head so Hi…now please stay out of there.
- Anytime I look at you, I smile. Every time you move, I laugh. Whenever you talk, I get excited. For some reason, retarded people are really entertaining to me!
SAME NIGHT:
- What an awesome night!
- I hope you got back safe
- Don't dream of me too much...
ATTRACTION:
- I must say, among all the [first name] [last name]‘s I know…you're probably the one I like the most.
- I'm not sure who you’re boyfriend is…but he’s sure not spanking you enough!
- Awwww, you’re too sweet. You’re making me get diabetes.
- I just don’t think we should be doing this anymore. I’m more than just a piece of meat, you know.
COMFORT:
- I was thinking about you…
- Something about you always makes me smile.
By using the flirting SMS texts and PUA text messages posted above, you'll build initial attraction with her almost immediately. But text flirting is only a small step to building attraction.
Flirting SMS, and particularly, using texts as a flirting medium for guys has grown to be so widespread lately that Shape and Men's Fitness Magazine put out the below results in their 2010 Sex Survey:
* Sending text messages is most couples' number one method of communication with one another.
* Men use texts close to 40% more than they talk on the phone. Girls use texts close to 150% more than they talk on the phone.
* Nearly 70% of respondents have sent "sext" messages in the past
* Close to 70% of respondents say that they have been asked on a date via a text message.
* About 50% of girls and 30% of guys say that they have been dumped via a text message.
So Yes, texting is a powerful method of building attraction. And yes, the following is a collection of flirting SMS texts and PUA text messages that are proven to work for most other guys:
OPENING:
- Surprise!
- Knock knock…
- What's my favorite little troll up to?
- I just made you check your phone for no reason. I really got you under control…
- Hey munchkin, I bet my weekend can spank your weekend.
- What type of trouble are you getting into now?
- I am luring women to my house with candy, would you prefer skittles or m&ms?
- Hey, text me back real quick. A simple Hi will work fine. All my friends don't believe that retards can text. We’ll show ‘em lil buddy!
- Hey princess, I just came back from the aquarium and I saw the most adorable little fishy there and it reminded me of you…
- I hope you have a smile on your face. If you don't, just think of me!
- Aliens are coming soon to abduct all the good looking and sexy ass people on this planet! But don't worry, you’ll be safe. I’m just sending you a text message to tell you bye.
- I really miss you and want to see you, but this stupid worker won’t let me enter the zoo. Is it possible for you to escape?
- Did you know a blue whales tongue weighs nearly the same as an elephant?! That’s ridiculous. Gotta love Animal Planet during the lunch break…
- I just saw your doppleganger!
- U just popped into my head so Hi…now please stay out of there.
- Anytime I look at you, I smile. Every time you move, I laugh. Whenever you talk, I get excited. For some reason, retarded people are really entertaining to me!
SAME NIGHT:
- What an awesome night!
- I hope you got back safe
- Don't dream of me too much...
ATTRACTION:
- I must say, among all the [first name] [last name]‘s I know…you're probably the one I like the most.
- I'm not sure who you’re boyfriend is…but he’s sure not spanking you enough!
- Awwww, you’re too sweet. You’re making me get diabetes.
- I just don’t think we should be doing this anymore. I’m more than just a piece of meat, you know.
COMFORT:
- I was thinking about you…
- Something about you always makes me smile.
By using the flirting SMS texts and PUA text messages posted above, you'll build initial attraction with her almost immediately. But text flirting is only a small step to building attraction.
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